At the recent Uplift Festival in Byron Bay, it was suggested to support each child by praising them for who they are this Christmas - sitting them in a chair and for each person to take a turn to say what they love about them.
I say do this for everyone - young and old. We all thrive on acknowledgement and shine when we are recognised for how we are, no matter what age. As my dear Dad is facing his twilight time on this planet, I want every opportunity to acknowledge him for the amazing man he is. If your family is huge this could be a big undertaking but maybe there's a way over this holiday period to spread the love with this idea in mind.
So make this part of your Christmas gift to your beloveds. And if you are in a love relationship right now, do this with your wife, husband or partner. The love you generate within your very own relationship is palpable for those around you.
Australia has been hit with her fair share of tragedies last week. It's been beautiful to see the bonding and positivity of human beings, instead of division and separation. In the end all we can do is be the best we can be in our own personal relationships.
May our individual offerings of kindness, compassion and peace create this ripple effect in our families and lives of all we touch. Only then can we create a groundswell of healing for our beautiful planet and hearts.
And Thank you to you because if you are reading this, you are part of the change that's happening on this planet - for being someone who values heart over head, who wants more in love relationships and your life, and just that pure intention serves us all.
Have a beautiful Christmas and Holiday break - see you for a special year in 2015 with new programmes, a new website and simply more love!
P.S Your body is not broken. Menopause is a gateway, a privilege, a time to embrace change with grace and step into a life that is empowered, loving and alive. This is your birthright as a woman. You have been waiting for this all your life... Buy mine and Diana's book Tantric Sex and Menopause on Amazon AUS, Amazon US & Amazon UK.
I think the event of birth and it’s subsequent effects on a woman’s body is one of the most underestimated natural disturbances and trauma on the female body and psyche that she may ever have. And on her willingness and physical ability to re-engage in sexual intercourse afterwards.
I cannot count the number of women who have sat with me and said it. 'It all changed after I had children'.
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I think I am the most relaxed I've ever been in any interview here, having known Nicola before. I'd met Nicola, a Relationship therapist, while attending The Making Love Retreat some 8 years ago in Europe.
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This one. Me, 23, in Rockhampton in 1984.
A few months later my whole life was about to be turned upside down. I was having a heap of fun, had the best job ever. Art teacher at Rocky Girls Grammar. So good. Never really had any aspirations. Was just like a leaf floating along the river of life.
It’s been years and years since I’ve allowed myself time to r e a l l y, t r u l y, w h o l e h e a r t e d l y relax.
Cortisol levels rising before, during and after menopause make anxiety a very real thing for many mid-life women. So delicate is a woman’s hormonal system it makes times like these a must for us to maintain balance.
This is becoming common knowledge now but when I was researching for our book, Tantric Sex and Menopause almost 5 years ago, no one was talking about it.