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By midlife and indeed for some even earlier, there are losses that are so achingly difficult to navi...
‘What she doesn’t see is how unsafe it feels to move towards her. It feels so vulnerable and unsafe ...
Each one of us exists and is conceived, through the actual act of making love.
That 'act' may be le...
The quiver of the heart.
A phenomenon that is rarely spoken of. Yet something very real, available,...
I've seen a lot in my almost 40 years of personal growth and more than 20 years of psychotherapy.
T...
I often hear men say, when they speak about sexual intimacy, "It's her problem, not my problem. I wa...
Bitterness.
I see it with some women after relationship losses or long periods of being in a relation...
'Heartbreak is how we mature. It is as inescapable and inevitable as breathing. Even the longest mar...
Very early one morning in February I was interviewed by a beautiful couple, Nicola Foster and Jason ...
To approach the body with sensitivity and awareness is a rare thing and yet it’s what every ‘body’ i...
What is it to be sexually vulnerable in a relationship?
A strange question. Who wants to be sexuall...