Thank you

A big thank you to those who attended the Slow Sex movie in Sandgate Thursday night.

We had some fantastic feedback about how professional the movie was and how it so clearly stated such simple yet important keys for life, not just lovemaking. Someone joked that the whole teaching of the movie could have been applied to the technical hitch we had - letting go of the goal and relaxing! Mmm…Good point! Thanks for hanging in there with us!

I want to extend my appreciation to Yvonne Lumsden of OneLove (who introduced the night) She was the one who said, "Let's put on a movie night!" As she said, she was so inspired that she wanted to support us to bring it to the community.

Yvonne and her lovely partner, Ian, attended The Making Love Retreat recently. Yvonne is a very humble person with sincere integrity and who works with individuals and couples in Brisbane as well as doing fantastic body work/massage and running Kundalini Dance and workshops for women. Thank you Yvonne!

Everyone appreciated the home cooking - cooked with LOVE, like all our retreats - you can taste it in the food! And the special and warm atmosphere created by our helpers - Julie and Con, Pat, Jodie, Chirone, Aly, Mel and Ian.  You were awesome!! Thank you with all our heart.

For your continuing journey, please take a look at these upcoming events…

The Making Love Retreat, 10th - 16th November.
All Woman workshop (new!)

Stay tuned for further dates through my newsletter with monthly updates and include an article with tips for relationships and lovemaking.. And if you missed the night and would like to purchase the Slow Sex DVD or any books, feel free to browse here.

With all love and I hope we meet again!



P.S Your body is not broken. Menopause is a gateway, a privilege, a time to embrace change with grace and step into a life that is empowered, loving and alive.  This is your birthright as a woman.  You have been waiting for this all your life... Buy mine and Diana's book Tantric Sex and Menopause on Amazon AUSAmazon US & Amazon UK.

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